Tuesday, August 31, 2021

August 2021

Concert at the Foundry, August 13, 2021

My life right now is very different than it was two months ago, and worlds apart from a year ago. 

Every school morning I get a mask on each of my kids' faces and put them on a school bus. Then I don't see them again for several hours. I am happy for them that they get to go to the school building and that they don't have to try to learn from a computer screen. I am happy for me that I have this extra time to myself. Although it is scary to be able to hear myself think. The past 10 years there has always been enough commotion around me that my thoughts were usually in the background. Now sometimes my thoughts are too loud, so I have to find something else to listen to. 

I've been playing my cello a lot more. I played principal in the last concert and am in the driver's seat of the section again for the next concert. That means I need to not mess up too bad, so there is some extra pressure, but I have learned a lot and it is really rewarding.

It's easier to exercise. Especially since I hate exercising where anyone can see me. It's easier to connect with God. For me, scripture study and prayer is more meaningful in solitude.

The house isn't as clean as I hoped, despite having this extra time alone in the house. Rather than organize my nest, I have found myself spending hours in front of a laptop lining up logistics for the orchestra (I am still the personnel manager), and also stepping out of the house to visit and catch up with friends. But I have my moments where I dutifully clean, and try to bring some semblance of order to our home. I do want it to be a peaceful, welcoming place for the kids to return after school. 

Maybe sometime this week I will dig through some old photos and post those. Where am I at, May 2019? That was eons ago.

Sunday, May 9, 2021

Paula's Preschool Graduation

It's finally happened--I am now TWO years behind on this blog. Ramona was watching me edit these photos and she asked why I didn't just skip those two years and start documenting more recent events. Maybe I should. It's unlikely I will "catch up" anytime soon. 

For the time being, I will keep enjoy these blasts to the past whenever I actually sit down and open up this blog. Today is Mother's Day and I consider it a treat to be able to do this while the kids play UNO with Forest.

So . . . here we are in May 2019. Five-year-old Paula is graduating from preschool and attending a post-graduation party hosted by Ms. Stacie.
The graduates: Audrey, Claire, Evan, Makayla, Paula, and Quinn. They were adorably shy.
Kazoos came out for one of the songs on the program
For a class gift, we gave Ms. Stacie a sign with the name of her preschool. It seemed appropriate since it was her first year setting up her school.
Party time!
Wylie discovered a gun that shot balls at bears.
Paula fishing for prizes
Congratulations, Paula! And thank you Ms. Stacie for an amazing year of preschool!

Wednesday, March 31, 2021

Picture Books By Ramona

At the end of fourth grade, Bethke kids usually get to write a story and make a picture book for their book buddies. Since Ramona had two book buddies that year, she was tasked with a double picture book assignment. Despite feeling stressed about writing an extra story and getting the books "just right," she was able to produce two darling books for her first grade reading buddies. 

 


Tuesday, March 30, 2021

Refrigerator Saga

We purchased this Whirlpool fridge in Summer 2019 to go along with our kitchen remodel. Cabinetry was planned to fit its dimensions, and we put quite a bit of thought into its selection.

It has been trouble since day one.

As soon as it was installed, the water dispenser refused to work. Ice would dispense, but no water. We figured out that it could dispense water one time if you popped out the water filter, but then it would stop again. There were many tedious phone calls with Whirlpool and three different appliance repair companies out to look at it. We even had to contact our water company to get confirmation that water pressure in our neighborhood is within a normal range. Around October we finally got it fixed--four months after install.

The fridge worked fine for about a year after that. Then, the week after Thanksgiving 2020, it completely died. (The manufacturer's warranty had just barely expired, of course) We had the pleasure of making an appointment with a repair company once again. When the technician looked at it, he determined that either the control board or the compressor needed to be replaced. They wanted to start with the control board, since it was the cheaper part. Unfortunately, it was on backorder, so he wasn't back until several weeks later. When it finally came, he arrived to swap out the control board and announced that the compressor had responded favorably and that the fridge should be cool in a few hours.

Not the case.

We called the company again and they determined that the compressor must be the issue. The part was also on backorder. Several more weeks passed. This whole time, we had been blessed with a second fridge in the garage and it had been cold enough outside to store produce in coolers, also kept in the garage. So we still had the ability to chill our perishable groceries and only had a few issues with temperature fluctuations because of weather. But we were losing our patience with the situation, constantly going in and out of the garage for every refrigerated item, so we broke down and bought a mini fridge to put across from the washing machine at the end of February. 

In March, it had been a full three months since the fridge quit. Forest got on the phone with Whirlpool, and after being on the call for an eternity, got them to put us at the front of the line for a compressor, and they also mailed us a $150 prepaid visa card for our troubles. Eventually, the compressor showed up at our house and we booked an appointment with the appliance company. They had mentioned previously that we were responsible for the cost of labor, which would total about $800. However, when I scheduled the appointment, I was told the cost of labor appeared to be covered by Whirlpool. I was told this again over the phone when the appointment was confirmed. I asked them to look into this and get back to me. I was told the recent communications had been incorrect, and that we were in fact responsible for labor charges. When I asked for an estimate, the woman on the phone said she would have the technician contact me with that information. 

While I waited for his call, I grew uneasy about working with an appliance company that didn't seem to be able to communicate accurate information about billing, and my distrust of the technician was growing. He had come to look at our water dispenser in 2019 and failed to fix it. When the fridge completely quit, he had given me no diagnosis for the cause, and seemed to believe the problem was solved after replacing the control board. 

I decided to call a different appliance company and cut ties with the previous one. A woman named Abby with a reassuring voice and thick English accent listened to my story and helped me schedule a service call with one of their technicians. Last Friday, Paul the appliance technician came to take a look at our troublesome fridge and made no effort to sugarcoat the truth: this fridge was in bad shape. 

The original compressor was hot to the touch, which was an immediate warning sign. Either the compressor had seized independently, or a refrigerant leak could have triggered its failure. Regardless of which caused the problem, he did not have the appropriate tools to do any further investigation, because this fridge ran on an "oil-free" compressor, and required "virgin" tools that had not been used on standard compressors. An additional appointment would be needed to diagnose the exact cause, although he saw other indications that the refrigerant leak was probably the problem. After that appointment, a second appointment would be needed to do the actual repair. Replacing the compressor would not be enough to solve the problem--another control board would need to be installed so it could sync with the new compressor, and associated tubes and valves would need to be replaced. If a refrigerant leak had caused all of this, the evaporator would also need to be swapped out. Wait time on delivery of parts would cause a delay. This would all cost at least $800 even if Whirlpool covered the cost of parts.

I asked Paul if I should just get a new refrigerator. Perhaps not the most tactful question to ask an appliance repair professional. But can you blame me? He admitted that the repair we were looking at was like open-heart surgery. Often, problems can appear down the road as a result of such a big operation, even if life is temporarily extended. I asked him if he had ever done a repair like this before, and he told me honestly that he had never seen anything like it.

The Whirlpool refrigerator was beautiful. But it was quite obviously a piece of junk, and I was ready to say goodbye. Yesterday, Forest and I picked out a new LG fridge from Lowe's and it was installed this morning. The water dispenser worked right away and the air inside is already cooling. After four months without a working fridge in the kitchen, this will feel like such a luxury. The kids will be so excited to have ice cubes again.

The delivery men hauled away the old fridge and I don't miss it. 

We bought a protection plan for the LG. Hopefully this refrigerator saga has come to an end and we can turn our attention to other first-world problems.

Wednesday, March 24, 2021

Mika My Violist

Ever since Mika was pretty small, I had a feeling she was a viola player. She is always thinking outside the box and doing things in her own unique way. It didn't seem appropriate to give her a little instrument that mainly plays the melody in treble clef, or a larger instrument that likes to lay down a bass line in bass clef. This middle child was just begging to play in alto clef and the viola seemed perfect for her.

She started her journey with the viola in May 2019, at the end of 2nd grade. I didn't have a viola small enough for her on hand, so I turned Ramona's old half size violin into a a temporary viola by taking off the E string, moving the remaining strings over, and adding a C string to the bottom. (Ramona had upgraded to a nicer 3/4 size violin by then). She picked it up fairly quickly, and despite starting on the piano with treble and bass clef, she settled into alto clef quite nicely.
My favorite Mother's Day gift that year was hearing Ramona and Mika playing their instruments together and watching them pluck the strings in their pajamas.
Mika took her identity as a violist very seriously.
When the opportunity came for her to "Teach the Teacher" at school, she knew she wanted to teach Mrs. Haselby how to play the viola. She made a lesson plan, and that day we delivered both her little makeshift viola and my 15.5 inch viola to the school so she could make it happen.


Mrs. Haselby snapped this darling photo and sent it to me after their lesson:
Being a viola player isn't easy. It's tough playing the middle voice, and the viola jokes can be brutal. But if anyone can handle it, Mika can!