Showing posts with label COVID. Show all posts
Showing posts with label COVID. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 24, 2021

My kind of lemonade

It's been a lemon of a year, right? Have I made lemonade? Sometimes. Some days I feel like I was refereeing a lemon fight with my family (or just joining in), so by the end we were all cranky and covered with bruises and lemon juice. Not to mention--we had a huge mess to clean up. Other days, we remembered to add sugar and ice cubes, so things were sweet and chill. 

I will say this about this past year: life gives me quarantine, I make string players. Pretty dorky, I know. But fairly accurate. When everything shut down last April, I used a lot of the homebound time to double down on Ramona and Mika's string playing skills. I'm certain their hands were on their instruments more than they would have been if school and activities had all been in full swing. Instruction was far from perfect--sequencing of technique was not really a consideration, and we didn't weave much music theory in, either. The goal was just to keep them playing and find music that interested them. 

The result: 
1) I prevented them from quitting. That alone is sometimes a huge feat, especially when kids tell you they want to quit every week.
2) They found their sound. Bowing stringed instruments is hard, and there is no substitution for repetition. They played often enough that sound production was no longer a struggle. Their bows weren't constantly bumping into other strings and they could consistently avoid most extraneous screeches and squeaks. 
3) By playing familiar songs, they trained themselves to listen and adjust for intonation errors. Sometimes they are lazy and don't self-correct as they should. But when they are actually trying, the left hand fingers land in place pretty well, and usually slide to the right spot when the initial target is missed.

All that because we didn't leave the house much for a few months.

Now I am finding myself in another partial quarantine. Yesterday I got an email from the County Health Department with a specific quarantine order for Paula because a classmate of hers tested positive for COVID. She isn't allowed to leave the house for the next week as we monitor for symptoms, and we aren't permitted to have visitors in the house, so I have had to contact all my music students to make accommodations for that. Paula switched to remote school beginning yesterday, and this morning all the kids are at school except for her. It's just the two of us at home. 

So I taught her how to the play the violin.

I had an extra half-size violin sitting in the basement. It had previously been strung like a viola while Mika had been learning on it, and I tucked it away after I got her an actual 13-inch viola. Before that, it was Ramona's first violin. Paula watched me excitedly as I restrung the instrument, turning it back into a violin and teaching her the string names. I had her look at the first few pages of a beginner violin book to learn the parts of the instrument as I tuned it. Then we plucked a few strings before she had to start her class on the computer. 

While she did that, I dug up an old "Resonance" shoulder rest that had been replaced by some better "Kun" accessories. It had been fitted for a 3/4 size violin, so I tried taking it out to the garage and smacking it with a hammer until the grips were the right distance apart for a Paula's half-size violin. Next problem: curvature. "Kun" shoulder rests have a much more defined curve that, in my opinion, fits better on the shoulder and collar bone. "Resonance" rests are rather flat in comparison, and don't provide enough lift. I needed some material--something firm, but not too hard. I found an old shoe insole that I had ripped out of a brand new pair of shoes to make room for my orthotics. It was made out of foam and fabric and was never worn in a shoe so it didn't smell like foot. I grabbed some scissors and cut it up to see if I could create an attachment for that flat shoulder rest.

Is this really how I spent my free time today? Appalling, I know. But I wasn't planning to teach Paula the violin today, it just kind of happened. My actual long-term goal is to teach her how to play the cello, because I am pretty sure she is more of a cellist than I violinist, but I don't have an extra quarter-size cello sitting around my house, and her fingers are still so little . . .
Anyway . . . voila! A semi-suitable shoulder rest!

When Paula came down for her break from remote school, she told me she had a full hour until she needed to be back. So I taught her how to hold the violin, how to pluck the strings while it was up on her shoulder, and even how to play a couple of fingered notes on the D string. 
You can tell she is concentrating more on those fingered notes! It was a lot for just one "lesson," so we stopped and she read a book until it was time to go back to class. 
This is my kind of lemonade. 

Friday, February 19, 2021

Friday, February 19, 2021

Every once in a while the terrain flattens out for just a bit, and I get a moment to catch my breath and enjoy the view. Today that view is a disasterously messy kitchen (Wylie and I made a quadruple batch of banana chocolate chip muffins). Over in the family room my little guy is dancing away in front of the TV to the tune of "Just Dance." He seems happy and I think I have time to clean up our mess, so this afternoon seems doable. I even briefly exercised and showered this morning, after all three girls went to school. Ramona usually doesn't go to school in-person on Fridays but Monday was a holiday so today was kind of a make-up day for her attendance group. Most remote learning Fridays have been almost unbearable for both me and Ramona because of the 6th grade workload, general cabin fever, and relentless anxiety. Today is a welcome relief from that.

This week had some challenges. Paula caught a little cold from her Valentine festivities at school, and symptoms started popping up on Saturday. There was no school Monday, and I kept her home Tuesday and Wednesday because students have to be symptom-free for 48 hours before returning to school. This is for any ailment, regardless of fever, which she never had. I understand the need for caution during a pandemic, but it is exhausting to constantly feel alarmed about every sniffle and cough I hear out of my child. Paula shared her cold with Wylie, so he missed a bit of preschool. 

Mika had a crisis over which Colorado historical figure to research for her wax museum project. (She was deeply offended that her first choice, Owl Woman, does not have enough of her personal accomplishments documented. She pointed out that she only seems to be famous because both her father and husband were prominent men.) After throwing several objects around the house to display her frustration, she finally calmed down and committed to research Polly Pry, a nineteenth century reporter that Mrs. Drage recommended for her. I had already spent some time looking for Owl Woman resources she could use, but switched to requesting books about the reporter, and was able to pick up one volume from the library. 

Ramona had a huge work load on her two remote days this week, and she struggles to focus during the day so all of this results in some late nights. Last night I was up with her past 11pm working on math, and we didn't even finish everything. I didn't make it to bed until 12:30.

But today. Today I caught a break. And it's time to clean the kitchen.

Wednesday, January 27, 2021

Preschool Field Trip 2019: Fire Station

Wylie's preschool field trip to the fire station was canceled this month, due to COVID-19. But he actually had the chance to go with Paula's preschool class back in May of 2019. Here are some photos that might jog his memory:

Kids plugging their ears at the sound of the fire alarm:

Fire Pole:
Fire truck tour:
Class Photos:
I have yet to regret taking a shameful amount of photographs of my children . . . not when they allow us to take a virtual field trip as consolation for yet another canceled event!

Wednesday, November 18, 2020

So long, Solitude

Today marks my last home-alone Wednesday morning for a while--it's the final in-person instruction day for the girls this semester. Next week they return to 100% remote learning and will continue with that format until Winter Break.

Here is Ramona getting ready to leave for Preston Middle School this morning:
Here are Paula and Mika getting ready to walk to Bethke Elementary:
And here is Wylie, getting ready to ride his bike to preschool. No word yet on whether or not his school will have to shut down, but if Colorado gets a stay-at-home order in the coming weeks, he may have to say goodbye to Ms. Stacie for a while.
No one is thrilled about doing school from a computer, but we are planning to reward our efforts with Chick-Fil-A meals and Disney Plus. And we will probably continue to watch Marvel movies every week--that has been essential for our morale the past few months. 

I have a few more minutes until I get to greet my little preschooler and bring him home for lunch. Let's see if I can finish our 2020 Christmas card . . .
 

Wednesday, November 11, 2020

Another Wednesday Morning

 It's Wednesday morning again. Hello. The kids were allowed to go to school this week (miraculously), and I got another stretch of quiet time with the house all to myself. 

It appears as though Joe Biden will be our president next January. But things still feel pretty unstable--Trump won't concede, and he has taken to lawsuits to try to win back what he believes is rightfully his. A lot of people are on his side. The nation feels as divided as ever.

A vaccine is on the horizon but people are still getting sick. No stay-at-home order, yet, but I started teaching lessons with a face mask this week. It's better than trying to teach over a computer. 

Time to go get my little boy from preschool. Can't wait to see his grin. :)

Wednesday, November 4, 2020

US Election 2020

It's Wednesday morning. The kids are all at school again (for the third time ever) and I am here on the blog again. I'm not sure how much longer this in-person instruction will go on--COVID numbers are steadily rising again in our county, state, and country--but I will take these quiet moments while I can get them.

Speaking of country, yesterday was election day. But we still don't know who are new president will be in 2021. As I am writing this, Joe Biden has 238 electoral votes and Donald Trump has 213. They are still counting ballots in Georgia, Michigan, Nevada, North Carolina, Pennsylvania, and Wisconsin and pretty much all six states are neck-and-neck in percentages. Whoever wins, a lot of people will be upset about the results. I saw a news report that the City of Denver was asking store owners to board up their front windows with plywood in anticipation of rioting and looting. Our nation requires so much healing--this week, and moving forward. 

Perhaps now is a good time for me to take a peek back at some photos from good ol' April 2019 . . .

Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Glimpse of Normal

It's eerily quiet in this house. Forest is at work, and all four of the kids are at school--a seemingly normal scenario that has never happened until this morning. Ramona, Mika, and Paula are on a hybrid learning schedule that allows them to go to their school buildings twice a week on Mondays and Wednesdays. Wylie is at preschool until lunch. I haven't had this much time and space to myself in a long time. I used some of it to exercise, clean my face, read, and make a phone call. Now I'm here. Hello, blog.

Mika, Wylie, and Paula off to school
Perhaps I will dive into some old photos from March 2019 . . .

Wednesday, October 7, 2020

October 2020

It's been over two months since I posted anything on here. I am still woefully behind on my backlog of photos I've wanted to include from last year. There are so many happy moments I want to preserve and remember through images and include some journaling to go with it. But it is hard to sit down and reminisce about more peaceful times when the current world is in so much turmoil. We are months into a pandemic that has turned everyone's lives upside down--there are weekly battles with anxiety and depression. The civil and political unrest is horrifying, and more than once I have had nightmares where the president of our nation is a despicable villain from whom I had to protect my family. To top it off, our side of the country has been on fire for weeks, causing it to rain ash, painting the sun an eerie red, and leaving an inescapable scent of smoke in the air.

But there are some silver linings.

I have recommitted myself to my family. Being pushed to my limits as a wife and mother has forced me to reevaluate my priorities and determine how I can move forward to best preserve and improve these relationships. Despite the brutality of 2020 and all of us seeing each other at our worst, we are still together. We have found ways to better support each other in moments of weakness, and, perhaps out of necessity, have learned to trust each other more. It is still hard--sometimes the kids just desperately crave space from each other, which isn't always easy to provide. Schools are only partially open (as of this week), activities are still limited, and restrictions abound. We are home a lot and get on each other's nerves a lot. But I like to believe that most of the time, love still wins in this house. Even when it's a sore battle, and she wears the scars to prove it, she still comes out on top more often than not. And maybe, because she's had to work so hard, she is stronger than she was before. 

I miss playing in orchestra. I miss that big sound that surrounds me and fills our performance space. I miss weaving different fabrics of symphonic sounds together with my musician friends. But I have learned to appreciate other instrumentations, too. String trios with my students. A quartet for a wedding. A double trio that performed at church a couple of weeks ago (Ramona played her violin and was by far the youngest in the group, but kept up just fine). Of course, unaccompanied Bach for cello. 

. . . and solo piano, although I wasn't the one playing (thank goodness). Last Friday, Forest and I went to our first live musical performance in months. I got an invitation to a faculty recital by pianist Adam Zukiewicz at UNC and was thrilled that we were able to go. There were only about 12 audience members in the entire performance hall, all of us socially distanced and clad with face masks. He opened with the solitary, brooding notes of Beethoven's "Moonlight" Sonata, and I felt my eyes get a little wet. It had been too long.
I asked Forest if he would drive us through a Culver's on the way home to add just a little more sweetness to the evening. He was happy to oblige.

Friday, March 20, 2020

Paula's 5th Birthday

Hello from a Spring Break like we have never experienced before. We are in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic, and the governor has ordered schools to be closed for at least another month past our scheduled break. Besides schools, almost everything else has been shut down except grocery stores. I am suddenly finding myself with a completely cleared calendar, all four children home with no where to take them, and a tenser-than-usual husband trying to work from home. Every hour I am battling against boredom on behalf of the kids, at the same time I try to keep distraction at bay for Forest so he can focus on work. I miss seeing my cello students and sometimes wish I could escape to an orchestra rehearsal (all of which have been indefinitely canceled).

But despite these challenges, there are some benefits to being housebound. We are getting some serious family time--not all of it is the highest quality, but there is still something to be said for quantity. Also, I have dusted off a bunch of solo repertoire for my cello, and actually found some moments to practice it. In addition, I am finally sitting in front of this neglected blog with the hopes of completing a post from more than a year ago.

So here it is . . . back to December 2018.

On the morning of her fifth birthday, Paula woke up to a surprise: A giant horse she later named Hazel.
Later in the morning she got to play at Jumpin' . . .
. . . and then we all went to Coopersmith's in Old Town Fort Collins for lunch.
Wylie enjoyed a cup of root beer milk (which tasted a lot like a melted root beer float)
Then we went for a short stroll around Old Town.
Back at home . . .
 Presents . . .
Cake, candles, and doughnuts . . .
To my Darling Paula Doll,
     One of the things that amazes me about you is your love of learning and your hard-working attitude. Sometimes when you encounter a challenge--when something puts your mind or your skills to the test--rather than moan or groan, I actually hear you audibly giggle, like you are enjoying yourself.
     Perhaps because of this disposition, you are one of the smartest kids I have ever met at your age. After your first week of preschool, your teacher was blown away by both your reading skills and your number sense. I guess it's not every day you meet a four-year-old who buries her nose in a chapter book. The best part of your teacher's report, though, was the part about what a kind friend you are to classmates. You are fun and compassionate, and people like to be around you.

I love you so much. Thank you for being you.
Love,
Mama