Wednesday, February 24, 2021

My kind of lemonade

It's been a lemon of a year, right? Have I made lemonade? Sometimes. Some days I feel like I was refereeing a lemon fight with my family (or just joining in), so by the end we were all cranky and covered with bruises and lemon juice. Not to mention--we had a huge mess to clean up. Other days, we remembered to add sugar and ice cubes, so things were sweet and chill. 

I will say this about this past year: life gives me quarantine, I make string players. Pretty dorky, I know. But fairly accurate. When everything shut down last April, I used a lot of the homebound time to double down on Ramona and Mika's string playing skills. I'm certain their hands were on their instruments more than they would have been if school and activities had all been in full swing. Instruction was far from perfect--sequencing of technique was not really a consideration, and we didn't weave much music theory in, either. The goal was just to keep them playing and find music that interested them. 

The result: 
1) I prevented them from quitting. That alone is sometimes a huge feat, especially when kids tell you they want to quit every week.
2) They found their sound. Bowing stringed instruments is hard, and there is no substitution for repetition. They played often enough that sound production was no longer a struggle. Their bows weren't constantly bumping into other strings and they could consistently avoid most extraneous screeches and squeaks. 
3) By playing familiar songs, they trained themselves to listen and adjust for intonation errors. Sometimes they are lazy and don't self-correct as they should. But when they are actually trying, the left hand fingers land in place pretty well, and usually slide to the right spot when the initial target is missed.

All that because we didn't leave the house much for a few months.

Now I am finding myself in another partial quarantine. Yesterday I got an email from the County Health Department with a specific quarantine order for Paula because a classmate of hers tested positive for COVID. She isn't allowed to leave the house for the next week as we monitor for symptoms, and we aren't permitted to have visitors in the house, so I have had to contact all my music students to make accommodations for that. Paula switched to remote school beginning yesterday, and this morning all the kids are at school except for her. It's just the two of us at home. 

So I taught her how to the play the violin.

I had an extra half-size violin sitting in the basement. It had previously been strung like a viola while Mika had been learning on it, and I tucked it away after I got her an actual 13-inch viola. Before that, it was Ramona's first violin. Paula watched me excitedly as I restrung the instrument, turning it back into a violin and teaching her the string names. I had her look at the first few pages of a beginner violin book to learn the parts of the instrument as I tuned it. Then we plucked a few strings before she had to start her class on the computer. 

While she did that, I dug up an old "Resonance" shoulder rest that had been replaced by some better "Kun" accessories. It had been fitted for a 3/4 size violin, so I tried taking it out to the garage and smacking it with a hammer until the grips were the right distance apart for a Paula's half-size violin. Next problem: curvature. "Kun" shoulder rests have a much more defined curve that, in my opinion, fits better on the shoulder and collar bone. "Resonance" rests are rather flat in comparison, and don't provide enough lift. I needed some material--something firm, but not too hard. I found an old shoe insole that I had ripped out of a brand new pair of shoes to make room for my orthotics. It was made out of foam and fabric and was never worn in a shoe so it didn't smell like foot. I grabbed some scissors and cut it up to see if I could create an attachment for that flat shoulder rest.

Is this really how I spent my free time today? Appalling, I know. But I wasn't planning to teach Paula the violin today, it just kind of happened. My actual long-term goal is to teach her how to play the cello, because I am pretty sure she is more of a cellist than I violinist, but I don't have an extra quarter-size cello sitting around my house, and her fingers are still so little . . .
Anyway . . . voila! A semi-suitable shoulder rest!

When Paula came down for her break from remote school, she told me she had a full hour until she needed to be back. So I taught her how to hold the violin, how to pluck the strings while it was up on her shoulder, and even how to play a couple of fingered notes on the D string. 
You can tell she is concentrating more on those fingered notes! It was a lot for just one "lesson," so we stopped and she read a book until it was time to go back to class. 
This is my kind of lemonade. 

Friday, February 19, 2021

Friday, February 19, 2021

Every once in a while the terrain flattens out for just a bit, and I get a moment to catch my breath and enjoy the view. Today that view is a disasterously messy kitchen (Wylie and I made a quadruple batch of banana chocolate chip muffins). Over in the family room my little guy is dancing away in front of the TV to the tune of "Just Dance." He seems happy and I think I have time to clean up our mess, so this afternoon seems doable. I even briefly exercised and showered this morning, after all three girls went to school. Ramona usually doesn't go to school in-person on Fridays but Monday was a holiday so today was kind of a make-up day for her attendance group. Most remote learning Fridays have been almost unbearable for both me and Ramona because of the 6th grade workload, general cabin fever, and relentless anxiety. Today is a welcome relief from that.

This week had some challenges. Paula caught a little cold from her Valentine festivities at school, and symptoms started popping up on Saturday. There was no school Monday, and I kept her home Tuesday and Wednesday because students have to be symptom-free for 48 hours before returning to school. This is for any ailment, regardless of fever, which she never had. I understand the need for caution during a pandemic, but it is exhausting to constantly feel alarmed about every sniffle and cough I hear out of my child. Paula shared her cold with Wylie, so he missed a bit of preschool. 

Mika had a crisis over which Colorado historical figure to research for her wax museum project. (She was deeply offended that her first choice, Owl Woman, does not have enough of her personal accomplishments documented. She pointed out that she only seems to be famous because both her father and husband were prominent men.) After throwing several objects around the house to display her frustration, she finally calmed down and committed to research Polly Pry, a nineteenth century reporter that Mrs. Drage recommended for her. I had already spent some time looking for Owl Woman resources she could use, but switched to requesting books about the reporter, and was able to pick up one volume from the library. 

Ramona had a huge work load on her two remote days this week, and she struggles to focus during the day so all of this results in some late nights. Last night I was up with her past 11pm working on math, and we didn't even finish everything. I didn't make it to bed until 12:30.

But today. Today I caught a break. And it's time to clean the kitchen.

Friday, February 5, 2021

May the Fourth 2019

Back in 2019, the Clearview Library hosted some amazing parties. On Saturday, May 4th, they held an event at Boardwalk Park in Windsor to celebrate all things Star Wars.

Ramona shooting off a 2 liter bottle rocket:
Mika and Paula taking a turn:
Mika interacting with Page the Pelican, the library mascot:
Wylie found the perfect activity shooting balls at bad guys
Windsor Lake Beach
Wylie's first encounter with Chewbacca:
Some stencil spray art
Chewbacca
R2D2
Yoda
Wylie's second encounter with Chewbacca
The kids' yoda crafts--his nose looks a bit like a Hitler mustache:
Now the kids are in a Marvel Avengers phase and hardly remember their enthusiasm for Star Wars. Hoping to bring it back at some point, somehow . . . we can always stand to have a little more of the force with us, right?

Friday, January 29, 2021

May 2019 Orchestra Concert

This concert was a milestone for me because it was my first time playing principal cello for the Loveland Orchestra. Not because I got promoted--I got bumped up to that seat because Heather Cowan, who usually sits principal, had a scheduling conflict. But it was still an exciting new experience. You play differently when you are supposed to lead the section . . . you want to give the right cues and help everyone stay together. You need a tighter connection with the maestro as you watch every flick of his baton and work with him to execute clean entrances and cut-offs. 
The program was mostly movie music, but also featured the winner of our 2019 Young Artist Competition, which was organized by yours truly. Emma Johnson blew everyone away with her piece, "The Lark Ascending," by Vaughan Williams. She actually made one of the judges (Maestro Louie) cry at the competition because her playing was so pure and beautiful.
This show's movie music theme inspired a few fun costumes. Our second bassoon player's husband dressed up as a T-Rex (nod to Jurassic Park), and Mika dressed up as Rey from Star Wars.
After the show with my stand partner and dear friend, Anita Kufeld:
So long, Star Wars. Goodbye, Imperial March, with your relentless bass line. Adieu, Princess Leia Theme and Jurassic Park Theme--thanks for sharing your soaring melodies with the cellos. Will I ever see you again?

Wednesday, January 27, 2021

Preschool Field Trip 2019: Fire Station

Wylie's preschool field trip to the fire station was canceled this month, due to COVID-19. But he actually had the chance to go with Paula's preschool class back in May of 2019. Here are some photos that might jog his memory:

Kids plugging their ears at the sound of the fire alarm:

Fire Pole:
Fire truck tour:
Class Photos:
I have yet to regret taking a shameful amount of photographs of my children . . . not when they allow us to take a virtual field trip as consolation for yet another canceled event!

Thursday, January 21, 2021

Ramona's 10th Birthday

Ramona woke up on her 10th birthday with a low-grade fever. She had to stay home from school, but felt good enough to practice her violin and get some school work done.
At noon, we did something unthinkable these pandemic days, and went to Freddy's for frozen custard within hours of Ramona's temperature reading. We didn't even wear face masks! How irresponsible is that?

Birthday girl opened her presents in the afternoon. 
The moment she met Randy the Racoon:
Dangly Earrings!
Instead of birthday candles in cupcakes, we did birthday candles in sushi rolls. Having a little cold didn't keep Ramona from her sushi.
Dear Ramona,
   These photos mark a decade of YOU! I know fourth grade was a rough year for you, marked with many disappointments and big emotions. You had to get braces, and you hated them. You didn't get to have your closest friends in class with you, there was a lot of friend drama at recess, and you were told there was no longer room for you in show choir after initially being accepted. You had to accept the difficult reality that schoolwork (among other things) triggers a large amount of anxiety in you. 
   But here were the good parts: Your fourth grade teacher, Mrs. Drage, ended up being your favorite elementary teacher of all time. You picked up the violin, and despite feeling plenty of frustration with it, you didn't give up on it. You got to work at the Bethke school store. You were a host for the Bethke KBOB show that included morning announcements, weather, and student birthdays. You were a ballerina on a big stage. You won an award for your mermaid costume at Halloween. This was the year you finished the Harry Potter series and got into Percy Jackson books. You accomplished a lot, learned a lot, and overcame a lot. 
   So even though you may remember that you had to be sick on your 10th birthday, I hope you will also remember that there was a lot of good to celebrate. There is a lesson in that: You can always find moments to smile, even when things aren't perfect. You are stronger than you know.

Love,
Mama